"Is the life I am living the same as the life that wants to live in me?" I love this question! Byron Katie would say... "yes - how do I know... because it is the life I am living." Eckhart Tolle would say... "yes - it is the reality of the present moment." Beth would say... Yes, and what can I do from here? The difference now is the answer no longer comes from my mind... It comes inside-out. That is, if there is such a place. No, not like a dirty sock in the bottom of the laundry basket.